Is She the Victim or the Accused?

It’s the only crime in which the Victim becomes the Accused. And that too by all and sundry. Fingers all pointed at her for a crime committed against her;

>Men lashing out to her for being ‘too easy/loose’.

>Fellow women criticizing her for not being too careful.

>Young girls being given her as the bad example of how not to behave.

>Babies that loathe the ladies that sire the babies.

Wait a minute guys. Let’s all take a chill pill. A step back, to reevaluate the issue at hand. We are wounding our dear women!

<Forgetting it is hard, but recollecting it is even worse!

She needs healing. And that too,fast. As fast as it can be prescribed for. Note, healing does not equate to non-existent of damages done. It’s rather to put a stop to them having dominion over her life. In other words, setting her free!

>Rather than bombard her with lectures on being super duper careful, our men should be taught NOT TO RAPE!

>Rather than criticizing women left right center, men should be criticized for harassing women!

Sexual activity via force or threat of force is WRONG on every level! Rape ain’t sex but VIOLENCE! Yes means only one thing ~ She gives consent.

“NO” means NO! HAPANA!

When she says “STOP” it means NO!

When she says “DON’T” it means NO!

When she says “LEAVE ME ALONE” it means NO!

When she says “I DON’T FEEL LIKE IT” it means NO!

When she says “I’M NOT READY” it means NO!

When she says “GET AWAY FROM ME” it means NO!

When she TURNS AWAY it means NO!

When she PUSHES YOU AWAY it means NO!

When she is CRYING it means NO!

When she is SCREAMING it means NO!

When she is PASSED OUT it means NO!

When she is DRUNK it means NO!

When she is DRUGGED it means NO!

(If she can’t say NO, she can’t say YES!)

YES MEANS BOTH PARTIES’ NEEDS, WANTS AND DESIRES ARE MET!

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